Stripping Harvey Milk’s Name from a Navy Ship Is an Unforgivable Betrayal
By Thomas Shess, Jr., founder of PillartoPost.org daily online magazine--There are moments in American history that reveal our character—not through what we build, but through what we tear down. The recent decision by Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth to strip the name of Harvey Milk from a U.S. Navy replenishment oiler is one such moment.
Announced during Pride Month, no less, the move feels less like a policy shift and more like a personal rebuke—a calculated slap in the face to every gay citizen who has ever worn the uniform, served with honor, or died under our flag. This is not just a name being removed from a ship. This is a family throwing out one of its own. It’s Thanksgiving dinner with an empty chair where a son or daughter once sat—banished not for what they did, but for who they are.
Harvey Milk was a Navy veteran. He served this country during the Korean War. He was later forced out because he was gay—yet he continued to serve the American ideal in ways far deeper than military rank. As one of the first openly gay elected officials in the United States, he stood for dignity, inclusion, and courage in the face of prejudice.
Naming a ship in his honor in 2016 wasn’t just symbolic—it was redemptive.
It said: You belong. We remember. We are better now.
And now? Now we erase? To rebrand this as part of a campaign to “re-establish warrior culture” is a hollow argument that rings with cowardice.
The U.S. military is strongest when it reflects the full spectrum of the nation it defends. Courage is not defined by conformity. It is tested in the fight for equality. A band of brothers does not abandon its own on the battlefield.
To strip Harvey Milk’s name from this vessel is to leave a brother behind.
Shame on us for allowing it. Let us not pretend this is merely a bureaucratic re-naming. This is an erasure of service, sacrifice, and legacy.
It dishonors not only Harvey Milk but every LGBTQ+ veteran and service member who ever stepped forward when others stood back. We owe them more than silence. We owe them truth—and a place at the table.
The name must be reinstated. And an apology must follow. Only then can we begin to steer back toward the ideals we so loudly claim to uphold.
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